@actuallyautistic @autistics #ActuallyAutistic anyone else ever experience a colleague saying something like "Let's grab a coffee.”; “I'd love to catch up and hear about your vacation.”; etc. and never do even though they do with everyone else.
and i get the social lubrication implications to these sorts of interactions, but it pisses me off that it’s ok for them to blow me off, but it’s apocalyptic if in their eyes i fail at some equally meaningless overtures.