When we call it #CultureWar, it then implies that our real enemy is those who are pushing the conflict. Wars are always manufactured. We've had different experiences and so see the world differently, but the natural response is empathy and trying to understand each other.
Our fight is with those who try to make us distrust and hate each other. Who push division for attention and profit. That's who we must defeat together. The yellers on TV and alt media. The owners of the triggering algos.