@storybead @WrenArcher I don't know if this adds to the conversation at all, or just confuses things, but I'm the other way: I get furious when our memorials are anything but political.
I think about how I want things to be when I myself get killed for being trans, and the answer is that I want people spurred to *act* as they believe they must. I don't care what anyone says in memoriam, only what they do.